We found this survey while lepaking in the student lounge in HELP. Very interesting. The italic is my answer.

Gender: Female

Religion: Buddhist

Age: 18-25

What is your definition of dating?
Going out with some one whom I have feelings for and he has feelings for me too at the same time. It could be just eating keropok lekor together beside the monsoon drain.

Have you been in a relationship before? If yes, at what age did you start dating?
Yes. 10 years old. ok i lied. 9 years old.

Are you in a relationship now?
yup =D

What is your opinion towards pre-marital sex and cohabitation?
Premarital sex is ok actually as long as there is no sexual misconduct as in, there have to be love and sincerity in between. Like what John said ” sex without love is merely an exercise.” So making love before marriage is ok, but mating and having sex before marriage is not ok. But the thing is, teenagers do not know the difference in making love and having sex. Sex is hot, making love is cool.

What is the suitable age to start dating? Does age equals to maturity?
From 14 years old and above I guess, but age does not equal to maturity. Some people in their 20’s have the same level of maturity as teenagers. I have seen.

What are the qualities in the opposite sex that you are attracted to?
Mine changes with time because I mature with time. I don’t really go for looks because looks are useless just like a cute cat who is fierce and scratches any one it sees. Just a good heart and some dash of understanding.

Do you believe in perfect soul mate? Why?
No. I believe in matching characteristics which complement each other. We are like jigsaw puzzles. There are so many jigsaw puzzles in this world, there must be a few who will match a jigsaw puzzle. It might not be perfect, but boleh lah. A perfect match is not really perfect, but imperfect match is perfection to me. Perfection is boring.

In your point of view, what are the benefits dating with others?
Being happy? Psychologically healthy because there is always some one there for you.  Decreasing the chance of human extinction?

Describe your perfect date.
A person whom I can talk about everything and anything under the sun! talk non stop. If there is a quiet moment, it won’t be because of we have no topic to talk about, instead it is just a moment where we enjoy the silence in the air and the presence of each other. The date need not be in a posh restaurant, just sitting on the bench in a park eating ice cream will do. But I will still be hungry.

How to maintain a relationship so that it will be long lasting?
Giving each other surprises from time to time, do not take each other for granted, and also give each other some space to breathe. But of course, it takes two to clap like how it takes two to make love. But the easiest way is just by using a voodoo doll. if it is not enough, you can use two.